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Create a feeling of dependence.Not he that adorns but he that adores makes a divinity.The wise man would rather see men needing him than thanking him.To keep them on the threshold of hope is diplomatic,to trust to their gratitude boorish;hope has a good memory,gratitude a bad one.More is to be got from depndence disappears,good behaviour goes with it as well as respect.Let it be one of the chief lessons of experience to keep hope alive without entirely satisfying it,vy preserving it to make oneself always needed even by a patton on the throne.But let not silence be carried to excess lest you go wrong,nor let another's failing grow incuragle for the sake of your advantage.
让别人依赖自己。神之所以为神，不在乎人们装饰其雕像，而在于人们诚心诚意地崇拜他。智者宁愿他人时刻需要自己，而非感激自己。保持他人的希求是智慧的，期望别人的感激是愚蠢的；期盼让人牢记，而感激使人忘却。受人依赖比受人尊敬更有益。人解了渴之后，往往转身离开井边；橘子一旦榨干，便会被人从金盘子中扔到垃圾筐里。当人们对你的依赖消失，良好的品行与尊敬也随之消失。努力保持人们对你的渴求之心，且不使其得到完全满足，这是最重要的人生经验之一。此法让你变得不可或缺，甚至连王座上的君主也永远需要你。但是不要做得太过分，以免误入歧途，也不要为了一己之私而让别人陷入病入膏肓的绝境。

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关键词：preserving DEPENDENCE Experience Satisfying advantage experience thanking entirely feeling without

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